Hopeless romantic is what I am. I believe that one day I’ll meet “THE ONE” and he’ll make me feel love like no other. I will patiently save myself for marriage as one of my acts to show him that I’m all his. We will meet in some magical way like in the movies. A song will play and we will use that song for our first dance. He will coincide with everything I ever wished to have in my husband. He’ll say corny things like your everything I prayed for and genuinely mean it. I’ll bear however many kids he desires while following my writing dreams and he provides and protects me. The family we create will be the depiction of almost perfection and not just in our holiday portraits. We’ll have a childish handshake we do every time we have to part ways. Even if it’s only for a day. You see I suck at writing love poems. They usually all are militant or simply just poetic. But I know when we meet. I’ll be able to write things about how he touches every sanction of my body if you know what I mean. Love & Poem is all I can do for now. But I know my romantic dreams will one day come true and I’ll be able to write love poems about you.
Sometimes temporary pleasures and comfort will have you compromising your values. You need to understand what your heart desires when it comes to romantic relationships. Your standards do not have to align with what society says they should be. However, they should align with a happy, loving relationship. I’m extremely young so I am no relationship expert. However, I do know in my past relationships I’ve been in it aligned with almost everything I wanted in a partner. I received the constant words of affirmation, gifts, romance, dates, and he provided and protected me. We had a song and a corny story about how we first met and other little things that just made sense. You see being with someone who aligns with how you feel you’re supposed to be treated will be way more fulfilling than any temporary pleasure or comfort you receive from a man who does not see you the way that God sees you.
Here Are Five Tips To Help You Establish Standards In Your Love Life
Love yourself…Of course, this is cliche but it’s ultimately true. For anyone to genuinely love you, you have to love yourself first
Get a true understanding of what you desire in a partner
Understand the importance of boundaries and establish them
Pay attention to things that make you feel good
Get to know how you need and desire to be loved
Even if you have no desire to be married it’s still important for you to create standards for your love life. Know that this is your life and you’re the author of it. Be true to every desire you have and fulfill every last one of them.
