You want to be chosen so bad you forgot no characteristic will get you picked. Having the self-proclaimed title of the wettest pussy will have you accumulating bodies that you wish never sought out for you, touched you, enter every sanction of your premises. So you allowed these men to tell you the value of your being. Screaming pick me because the validation of men makes you feel whole. Pick me, because a man choosing you makes you more of a woman. As he enters your body you feel the disloyalty also entering your sanction. Your body has lost its value, its youth, and its power. You can cook and clean all you want. Stop wearing the weave. Start making this man believe he is a God even though his intellect isn’t even deep. His penetration makes your skin crawl with disgust but oh to be in love with lust.
To be picked by him is the only thing you need. To be picked is more rewarding than you going after your dreams. To be picked makes you feel alive. Because there was no man to tell you there’s beauty inside you. It was always greater than just skin deep. You see my love, you’re bigger than what you could even see. They deemed you to be a hoe because of these men you allowed in. Not realizing it wasn’t tricks or treats you were seeking. Rather the love and covering of a man to make you feel protected. But the neglect you kept receiving kept you on a continuous search to find something to make you feel whole. So you hid behind a facade of being a pick-me, not realizing it’s easy to be chosen by a man. It’s hard accepting from yourself that you allowed that to be the end. So again you scream pick me, to only see that by being picked you’ve relinquished your rights to be more than what’s in between your legs.
Create an “I am list”. It might sound cliche, but giving yourself a daily reminder of who you are is beneficial. Always speak life over yourself. If you state that you are worthy, you are beautiful, you are accomplished eventually those things will come into fruition
Stop associating yourself with people who make you feel less than. That’s not only toward people you are romantically involved with. If you have friends or family who make you feel bad about yourself or undeserving of having better, stop having relations with them.
Start practicing self-care. When I say self-care I mean things that make you feel cared for. For some that may be eating healthy, going to the gym, or spa days. However, others might be healing their inner child and watching their favorite cartoon from childhood. Either way, do whatever makes you feel better about yourself.
Raise your standards to what makes you feel worthy. You have so many women who want to tell you the right way a man is supposed to treat you, however that way might not be comfortable for all women. However, don’t settle for less than what you desire from a romantic partner. If you expect designer bags, trips, gifts, and expensive dates STAY TRUE TO THAT. If you expect a man to protect, provide, and be loyal, STAY TRUE TO THAT. Rather you expect more or less does not equate to your value as a woman. However, let’s not try to equate our body figure, attractiveness, or where we are in life to deem us only appropriate for a certain caliber of men. Think of yourself highly and don’t settle for anything less.
Fuck these societal standards of what is a “wife” or a “suitable woman”. It doesn’t matter how good you think you can cook, and clean. Dress modestly and be submissive. None of those factors makes you the perfect wife. Stay true to who you are as a woman and choose a suitable partner that accepts you for who you are. And always remember tearing another woman down to try to make yourself look better is never a good look. Stop trying so hard to get chosen by being a “pick me” and you start doing the choosing
There are entirely too many rules when it comes to being a good woman. That is why we shouldn’t embrace the societal standards they have in place. Remember to stay true to your morals, and beliefs. And like always Leave a Mark They Can’t Erase.
Gracias Por Leer Mi Amors…
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